When is it okay to call yourself a writer?
If you are reading this, you probably have some interest in writing. Have you written poetry, essays, novels, or all of the above? Do you call yourself a writer?
When is it okay to label ourselves as such? For me, this was tough. I am not the type to talk much about myself, much less advertise that I write novels. I know, we have to promote ourselves and such, but like many “writers” it’s just not my thing.
I have spent years writing, editing, and working to grow as a writer, but I still find it difficult to label myself as much. We had a similar conversation a long while back in my writing group and someone simply said to me, “you are a writer” and hearing it come from someone else’s lips helped quite a bit.
Now when the what-do-you-do conversation comes up, I list my other occupations and include that I write novels. It’s hard for me not to cast my eyes down when I say this part but I resist because if I can’t call myself a writer, why would anyone else?
So, when should we call ourselves writers? When the big publishing house calls? After our self-published books sales reach some magic number? Or after we’ve invested years of time and energy in developing the craft even if the masses yet haven’t consumed it?
I’m not blogging this because I have the answer, clearly I don’t!!! But I’m curious on your thoughts out there. So, I put it to you… When did you start calling yourself a writer? Or when will you?
I’d been writing for a few months, but didn’t want to tell anyone. Then I read a blog post that said if you write, you’re a writer. Don’t be ashamed to admit it. I agreed and decided to own it. But it took a while to get used to telling people without casting my eyes down.
I agree, it isn’t easy to start calling ourselves that. I’m glad to hear that you’re keeping your eyes up!